Snake: I follow the will of the leader, no matter who's in charge Boss: People aren't the ones who dictate the missions. Snake: Then who does? Boss: The times. - Metal Gear Solid 3 ******* I have not done my reflections in the past, but I guess this is the perfect time to do it. Perfect because the series of things that have happened to me the past week was sort of life-changing. Is this post necessary? Not much, but try to scroll down and read. In the last few years of my life, a lot of people close to me tell me that I must "change" for the "better", and recently, I was involved in an argument where the other party pushes me to be like the latter. Of course I was mad about it because what that person wants is for me to become the opposite of who I am now. It will be a complete 180 degree turn. People will say that I must change because if you love the person, you must change for that person. For me that is repression, not unless ...